How to Best Support a Recovering Addict: Questions to Avoid Asking

People can seem insensitive to the recovering addict by asking the wrong types of questions, including:

• Will you ever be able to drink or use drugs again?
• Why can’t you just have one and then stop again?
• How long do you have to go to your meetings?
• How many times have you relapsed?
• Are you using right now?
• What’s the longest you’ve been sober?
• Will you be our designated driver for the night?
• Are you sure you have an alcohol/drug addiction?

It is not because they are not concerned, care, or want to be supportive. It is because they do not understand addiction and what the addict is struggling with themselves. These types of questions can come across as being invasive, intrusive, and insensitive for the recovering addict.

Questions You Can Ask

Some people are more willing to openly discuss and share their experiences. However, others can be less inclined because they can still feel embarrassed about how their addiction affected their family, friends, and life. Instead, try using these questions and statements to show your support:

• Can I go to a meeting with you to learn more about addiction?
• How are you doing?
• I know I don’t really know what you are going through, but I am here to help and support you.
• I am proud you are taking control of your life.

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